22 4 / 2013
"Having a low opinion of yourself is not modesty. It’s self-destruction."
Bobby Sommer (via erraticintrovert)
I’ve met a few people who behaved this way,failed to be grateful and be aware that Lord had created them so perfectly and with a purpose to live life beautifully and to know HIM.They fall in the category of wrong attachments and insecurity.Is that even normal?
Yes it is,there’ll be a point in our life where we’ll reach to this stage.Its a life process,to learn something out of it.However always try to be in a state of awareness as it helps a lot in escaping trials that may drown you in unnecessary misery.
06 4 / 2013
"When someone hurts you or harms you, even if it is a deep wound, forgive them. Forgive them NOT for their sake, but as a sign of gratitude to Allah. Why you ask? For making you the victim and not the oppressor. There is no crime in being a victim, rather it brings you closer to Allah and rids you of sins. But as for the oppressor, they’ll have to face their Lord one day. So in reality, they are their own greatest victims."
Imam Suhaib Webb (via heartheraindrops-fall)
i know its painful being hurt and it struggles to forgive.Days ago i was tested by this forgiving scene.Worst still the one who did me wrong passed away.I have a choice
1) i could stay stubborn and being hurt and claim my rights on the day of judgement
2) let go,forgive and move on.Though its not easy but think of that deceased being asked and faced with questions of her being.
After much struggling i forgive and moved on.Whatever happened back then could be her lack of awareness and maybe a slight misunderstanding.So yes every human being lived to err once or twice or thrice or the number continues.What is wrong is not aware of our doings to others and worst still not accepting a little humility when comes to our relationship with another human.I’ve decided to alert anyone who may sin just bcos he/she is with me be it hurting me or may hurt me cos i refused to allow them to answer questions about me when they depart from this world.Likewise i pray the same to happen to me too.Allah knows best.<3
10 2 / 2013
At times i don’t feel like logging in to facebook.The amount of anger,frustrations and negative aura drained me out almost instantly.Therefore i’ve decided to unsubscribed those post and prefer positive and useful words to appear on my newsfeed.
Many2 days ago,i learned that Facebook is definitely not a place to share your “two cents” worth.Cos you see,no matter how highly technology a social site may be still it can be misunderstood cos not all can understand the status you update or the inbox message you replied or the words you used to comment.Therefore there’s no such thing as freedom of speech nor its my site as that site is foremost not own by you,what you update is seen by many as privacy settings is not your rights in the first place and by not filtering your updates you’re just “selling” yourself away.Simple as that.
You’re giving way for people to judge you,its either they respect you or disrespect you all from the posting you posted.Then when you’re being tormented you’ll shout out that you’re being oppressed but little did you realized it was you who allow people to treat you that way.Now whats the root of the prob? Yes through your posting.
I learned that hard way therefore i learned it well,may God give us the intelligence much needed in this world.<3
27 1 / 2013
Young man that is my brother amazed me with his actions.Night ago a knocked on our home,he opened it and a man in his end 30s asking for donations.The man was honest enough to confessed as to why he ask for money with no obligation.
My brother being someone who hates to ask in details just gave that man the money and closed the door.I asked him lots of questions as to why he even gave that man money and i was taken aback with his answers.
he said ‘in this period of time its possible that we may be shortage of money till desperate measure were taken and we had to decrease our dignity/pride in doing it just to survive,whatever i gave him is for Allah’.
It set me thinking that what he just did is ihsaan for another human being without expecting a return or anything related.He did that solely for his lord.Amazing isnt it?Its a real live telecast of reminder for me,a lesson for me and definitely a smack to my ego.Its a good tame for the soul and understanding the beauty of the Almighty.I love such reminder.
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